ACID SASH

A friend of mine called me this morning and told me that he just broke up. i can say that he is really depressed. who’s among you had this kind of feeling before?  me? had it already, twice!.. when you are in forlorn stage, what will you do? As i write in the past post before, you have to remember that each day you have a hope. Eventually it’s not that easy to act towards thing that we dont want it to happened. There’s a usual thought if a couple break up, —> there must be someone in his/her side. But is it always true? We ought to think like that, rite. Me, as a woman had that thought before until i realize that it wasnt always true.

What are you looking for in permanent relationship? I say ‘permanent relationship, so this question is not to someone who dont agree with it(aka likes to have several ‘love friends’ ). First of all, you may not put your expectation too high. I say it cause i’ve experienced with it.  Once you put it, you’ll give everything to make it possible, and you will expect he/she will do the same. Meanwhile it’s not how it goes. Entering a relationship means you have to have FUN (first of all) then you can relaxed and get to know each other well. I have friend who’s having relationship quite long, they almost never have a fight. And ThAT Is SO WrONg!.. Couple means two people. Two people means difference - i mean no one has the same character. Hence, it’s ok to say yes/no if you have different opinion. Girl/woman tends to keep all problem and then or course it’s just like a time bom. Dont do that. But dont be too hard. It’s also not cool if you being stubborn. Persistent, ok.

What will you do if you’re having different faith with your couple? Be honest with your self, you dont put faith as one of criteria for the first time rite? We’re still normal human being, we will find a guy/lady who attract our attention not because he/she devoted to A/B religion . Now, what will you do if you already into ‘relationship’? most of people will say dont play with fire. That is true. It is a sensitive case. Water can not be mixed with oil. <— It’s a silly word to describe it, i know~ In this case you really have to think. If she/he really has everything you want (btw, please dont put money issue in it) you have to discuss it. Meanwhile you also have to remember, there’s a bunch of girls/boys outside who has same faith with you. Changing your faith because of her/him might be a good/bad story depending who see it. There’s no easy answer for this case. But changing your faith because of love might be a wrong step. You may change your faith if you really (i mean REALLY) learn about it. The second question for this case, what will happened if u made up your mind but then things going not as smooth as you expected to be. Dang, that’s y, you cant change your faith if it’s because of love. Most of people do this when they are ready get into marriage life. Some couple work it out, some dont. What’s next? Divorceee babe,it doesnt have to be a real divorce, but mentally separated.You cannot serve two gods at the same time dont you? i raise this issue because of my friend having this problem.Yet he broke up now.

Why do i loose weight after brokeup with him/her? HEYYYY,congratulations!! You look slimer now! Ha ha ha… Hey, enjoy your breakup time!.. been there done that! It will make u stronger. Take a moment alone and try to think, you love her/him so much but you also have to realize you also cant push her/him to accept you again unless she/he wants too. Maybe she/he is not really what you are looking for. But yeah, i know those feeling…. all i can say… feel it for a while. Pray, for yourself & for him/her. Take a break, it’s ok if you do something stupid for a while.I did! I turn on CD player and sang as loud as i want - as long as i want- and of course cRy liKe A RiVer (it’s waterfall instead– hue he he)- (but better do it when your family go out or your boarding house’ room mates go to their campus) But dont go too far! Stay in your line dude!

"I know why you’re here, Neo. I know what you’ve been doing … why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, and why night after night, you sit by your computer. You’re looking for him. I know, because I was once looking for the same thing. And when he found me, he told me I wasn’t really looking for him. I was looking for an answer. It’s the question that drives us. It’s the question that brought you here. You know the question, just as I did." [Trinity - THE MATRIX]

Cherio,

Tobing, Sari

1:05PM, Nanggroe Aceh Darussalam—— in t corner of my office room

hAVE YOU ever feel lonely?

have you ever feel Guilty?

Have You ever feel Unloved?

haVe you ever feel Insecure?

Have yOU ever feel hurts?

HavE  you ever feel rejected?

Have you ever feel down til you want to do something really stupid?

but

Have you done a good thing to your friends and family?

Do you have time to listen to other people story instead of your story?

Do you want to forgive your enemy?

DO you want to release your anger?

Do you have time do talk with your heart?

Do you know that there’s always someOne looking after you?

Do you know what’s your purpose in your life?

……………………………………………. take your breath,

Sometimes, problem arise unpredictable…… but sometimes we are the one who make those

problem happened……. everyone knows, running from a problem causing more trouble…….have

faith and face it…………… it is a way to make you becoming wiser……. it’s hard–i know— i’m

facing it right now……… i almost loose my grip but i know it’s time to solve the problem………..

My life and everyones life is always like a wheel…. FAITH of Hope shall be our greatest strength

Now, let me continue my journey…………..

Friday,4:02 PM, Banda Aceh

By grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourself; it is the gift of God; not as a result of works; that no one should boast.

Me,